actively encourage people to go out
Eh... Don't you hate aggressive women?You may think that, but in LOUNGE it is the opposite.
It's a thing of the past to show off and wait for the other person's reaction.
As a man, I can't deny that I'm afraid of the reaction, what if I invite myself and get rejected.That's why, when someone I'm interested in tells me, I can be relieved to say, "He seems to be okay, he doesn't have to ask me to do that."
Of course, women have the right to choose, so refusing is an option if you don't like it.But waiting for the man you're looking for to see how he will turn out is the same as overlooking the chance that's right in front of you.Try to be proactive enough to surprise yourself.
Thoughts on the article
Mai, 22 years old
Number of outings: 2 times
In my sense, rather than asking straight out, I thought it was more important to act like a man who would be easier to invite (in the end, I wonder if men want to persuade themselves), so I simply talked about meals. I thought it would be a good idea to start off with something like, "I'd be happy if I could go with you after this," or "I'm sure it would be fun if I could have a meal with Mr. 〇〇."
Posted date: 2023/1/17 0:20
Rika, 25 years old
Number of outings: 6 times
As an actual voice, there was a man who said, ``I was pulled out because I was rushed.''I think there are times when it's effective to encourage women, but it's not always effective, and I think it's one of several patterns.
Proactive invitations work in a positive direction if the man feels "fun" at the time of the invitation and is even slightly positive about going out.If you invite someone while you are still thinking, "At this timing? Are you looking for rice or money?"
For example, if a man likes a woman's appearance (face, style, clothes), falls in love at first sight, is happy to be able to talk to her, or is happy just to see her, then it might be possible to say, "Let's go out." .Also, there is a possibility that the men who come to the store are motivated by the fact that they definitely want to eat with girls today, but probably not all of them.
If not, the man will make a judgment as he talks, "Is it fun to spend time with this girl?"If you want to sell yourself, you can provide a sample of the "fun time" you can provide with an attractive appearance that you can show on the spot (smile, keep your posture neat, so-called popular gestures, etc.) and a conversation that makes the other party happy. ” is the shortest way to go out.
I've heard from men that "girls don't talk at all", so I think it's necessary to take the initiative to entertain men before asking them out. (I think it's also important to determine if a man is the type of person who would be happy if he asked you out in the first place. If a man is the type of person who has confidence in himself, he would say, "I want to choose by myself," or "If there is no good girl, I will force it." I have the impression that he thinks he will go home without choosing.)
Takashi 52 years old
Number of outings: 10 times
Honestly, each person!I think that there is no mistake in the content because the theory of technique, which has a large part, is well balanced between humility and aggressiveness.
As for the shortcomings of the article, some people may be confused as to whether it's telling you to go boldly or humble yourself to get used to it.You might think it's cliche.
*I don't think it's a problem because it's normal to be liked by people.
Tomohiko 56 years old
Number of outings: 2 times
It is a little difficult to understand the passage from "As a man, please invite yourself ..." to "I can feel relieved."
How about changing it as follows?
“Even if there is a woman who is interested in her, she is worried about being turned down, so some men hesitate to ask her to go out. It will dramatically increase your chances of success.”
What do you think.
In this passage, I feel that there are women who think that they can't be invited unless they have beautiful legs, and I feel that it only appeals to women who are confident in their style.Even if you don't have confidence in your style or breast size, it might be better to write in a way that doesn't go overboard and appeals to men to shake the hearts of men.If the body touch is overt, it will give a professional feeling, so some men may avoid it.How about writing a technique of casual body touch?For example, casually put your hands on top of each other during a conversation, touch a man's thigh for a moment, etc.
Kay, 29 years old
Number of outings: 10 times
There was a description that "proactively encourages going out," but when I asked the man when he went out, he said, "I felt pressure" because other girls actively encouraged him to go out.The important thing is not to use the word "going out" because it's important to talk in a way that you can't finish in 20 minutes, or to make people want to talk more.The recommendation is the story of rice.You say you haven't eaten anything today, so are you going to eat after this?to create a flow of
Posted date: 2023/1/11 14:04